Sunday, June 9, 2013

Without much comment . . . Should one attend the Demonstration today in Manhattan?

There is a demonstration that will take place  in Manhattan today, organized primarily by the Satmar community, to protest the proposed actions of the Israeli government regarding the Hareidi Yeshivot.

I am not going to comment at this point on my view regarding this demonstration.   I only want to record here the circus that is being put on by those claiming to report on what "Da'as Torah" is on this issue.

Letter #1 allegedly from Rav Chaim Kanievsky, שליט"א - one should not attend the demonstration

Letter #2 allegedly from Rav Chaim Kanievsky, שליט"א - one should attend the demonstration

Letter from Rav Shmuel Kaminetsky שליט"א - one should not attend the demonstration

Letter from Rav Dovid Soloveichik שליט"א  - one should attend the demonstration

Letter from the combined Lakewood Roshei Yeshiva  שליט"א  - one should not attend the demonstration

Letter from Rav Eliyahu Ber Wachtfogel  שליט"א - one should attend the demonstration

I also note for the record that I was in Yeshivas Chaim Berlin on Thursday, and there was a sign posted on the door in the name of the Hanhalah encouraging the talmidim to attend.

What is a person who is serious about Da'as Torah to do?    I don't know.  Other than to pray hard:

השיבה שופטינו כבראשונה, ויועצנו כבתחילה, והסר ממנו
 יגון ואנחה, ומלוך עלינו אתה יי לבדך בחסד וברחמים וצדקינו בצדק ובמשפט

Restore our judges as in former times, and our counsellors as of yore; remove from us sorrow and sighing, and reign over us, You alone, O L-rd, with kindness and compassion, with righteousness and justice

PS - A statement from the Rabbinical Council of America, which I think is a bit over the top as the demonstration is not about support for Israel but rather the new government attitude to the Hareidi community, but nevertheless:

PRESS RELEASE:
RCA Statement Concerning Ultra-Orthodox Anti-Israel Rally in New York
The Rabbinical Council of America Condemns Ultra-Orthodox Anti-Israel Rally   
The Rabbinical Council of America (RCA), the largest Orthodox rabbinic group in North America, deplores the attempt of a small but vocal group to undermine the image Americans have of strong, unshakeable, wall-to-wall Jewish support of Israel. Two chassidic communities well known for their rejection of a Jewish state have agreed to a joint rally in Manhattan on Sunday, June 9.

Rabbi Shmuel Goldin, RCA President, said, "It is an insult to the memory of the Satmar Rov, ob"m, that his disciples a generation later would take to the streets to publicly aid the many enemies who stand ready to destroy, G-d forbid, the Jewish State - and all Jews. For all his well-known opposition to a secular state, he always put the protection of Jewish lives first. It is unthinkable that as the largest Jewish community in the world deals with a nuclear threat from Iran, a military front opening with Syria, and the mushrooming of global anti-Semitism, that he would have countenanced aiding and abetting our enemies."

Rabbi Mark Dratch, Executive Vice President of the RCA, added, "We call on all Jews, Orthodox and not, to redouble their efforts to explain to their fellow Americans their commitment to the Jewish State and its central position in their thinking, even when they find fault with certain positions of its government, as happens with the policies of any true democracy."


Monday, June 3, 2013

Marching for Klal Yisrael

Perhaps I have been marching in this direction for a while, but today I attended my first Fifth Avenue “Salute to Israel” Day parade.


If today’s parade is reliable evidence, virtually all of the more Modern Orthodox leaning schools and institutions in the NY area proudly march up Fifth Avenue in support of Israel during this annual event.  Having gone to more “right-wing” schools and yeshivos growing up, this massive parade was not on the radar screen for me.  I did not know people who marched, did not associate much with those who might attend, and was never given information to believe that this was a worthwhile event.  It seemed like a place for the local politicians to demonstrate to gullible liberal Jews that by their attendance at this event they “proved” their love for Israel and Jews, and not something that made any real difference to anyone. 

 
I was wrong.  

I was privileged to attend the parade today with my daughter Diti, in the VIP section, as a guest of Jean and Eugen Gluck, wonderful members of our shul and prime supporters of the parade for the past twenty five years.  I had several thoughts at the parade that I thought were worth noting:


  • There was such a wonderful diversity in the crowd, which was marked by many very different groups – all joined together in support of Israel and in a friendly spirit.   All too often Jewish gatherings manage to highlight our differences; here, friendliness and brotherhood reigned supreme.  While a great many of the marchers, and the spectators, seemed to be from Modern Orthodox leaning circles, there were plenty of others as well.  There were Reform and Conservative groups, Federations, Zionist organizations, non-affiliated, and even plenty of non-Jewish groups.  Several of the marching bands were clearly not Jewish, nor were the Christians in support of Israel.  It was great to see so many thousands join together in support of the Jewish State and nation, when there is usually so much animosity directed toward us.  I am not sure what ultimate affect the parade has on the fortunes of Israel, but it was a magnificent and beautiful show of support and goodwill.

  • The energy of so many of the young people was exciting and palpable.   We always hear about how the youth are turned off to Judaism and are so rapidly losing their connection to all things Jewish.  The parade was a sign of great hope.  So many wonderful young men and women, marching, singing, dancing and cheering – proud to be Jewish and proud to demonstrate it.   The problems of alienation, assimilation, and intermarriage are far from being solved, of course.  But it was heartwarming and so encouraging to see this wonderful spirit on display.  Which brings me to my next point

  • I had the great privilege of watching the parade with several Holocaust survivors.  Watching Jean Gluck stand on her very painful feet – smiling, waving, handing out candy, and joyfully taking it all in for hours – was such an inspiration.  I could not help thinking that surely it crossed the mind of many survivors that they had participated in a parade of a very different sort almost seventy years ago – the infamous and horrible Death March through the forests of Europe.   One of the cruelest and most horrible things that the accursed Nazis, may they eternally rot in hell, made Jews endure was to force the weak, starving inmates – who they had worked to the bone –  to march in the freezing cold at a fast pace for many days in the freezing European winter, for no purpose at all, often on a purposely circuitous route to nowhere.   The camps were abandoned, the war lost; but rather than just letting them go, they forced these poor people on the terrible march where untold thousands who had made it through all the horrors of Auschwitz fell when they had no more strength to go on.  Elie Weisel’s harrowing account in “Night” of his father’s death on the march sticks in one’s mind forever as a symbol of the senseless barbaric cruelty that our people endured.

    And yet, there I sat with survivors of those marches, who took such solace in seeing thousands of free, strong, proud, committed young Jews marching with joy and abandon.   When I mentioned these thoughts to Sam Weisinger, he said, “No one who was not there could even begin to know what I am feeling today”.   What an incredible privilege to share a little bit of this with the precious survivors that we still have with us!

  • Unfortunately, there was a down side as well.   One looked far and wide for any participation from the Chareidi community – in vain.  With one glaring exception – the terrible Reshaim of Neurei Karta who seem to dedicate their lives to Chilul Hashem – the Chareidi community was absent.  As I mentioned earlier, this was my first parade, and thus I am no one to criticize others.   I only can feel pain and angst that the entire Jewish community can come together in joy and celebration and appreciation for the wonderful gift that is the State of Israel – except for the Chareidim. 

    I am well aware of all the arguments that they would present; all the imperfections of the State especially when it comes to Torah and religion, all of the people who left a Torah lifestyle to embrace secular Zionism, and all of the hard feelings that exist between the communities.  But those ought to be internal arguments.   As in the famous formulation of Rav Soloveichik zt”l, we are entitled to, and must uphold our principled positions and disagreements "כלפי פנים" when it is a matter of Torah importance.  However when we are dealing “כלפי חוץ”, in a Jewish stand vis a vis the outside world, we must stand together.   But that is a dream – one which it seems will have to wait for some future time.

Finally, in thinking about very large groups of Jews, my mind wandered back to an even larger, though less public, gathering less than a year ago – the magnificent Siyum HaShas at MetLife Stadium.   That evening was such a wonderful Kiddush Hashem, and created such good feeling amongst people, and motivated so many to dedicate themselves to Torah learning.  Although the crowd there was mostly Chareidi, a substantial number of non-Chareidi participated as well, as Jews came together to celebrate Torah. 

Unfortunately, however, the vast majority of the participants at one celebration were absent at the other.  

We look forward to a day when all of Klal Yisrael can gather together and celebrate, and on that great day the Lord will be One, and his Name will be One.


Saturday, May 18, 2013

Comment and Response regarding the Women of the Wall, and introducing Women For the Wall !!!!


Someone sent me a comment about my previous posting via email; I am publishing here, along with my response.  (The system would not allow such a long comment, nor the hyperlinks.))

Keep those comments coming!!!

YLO



You apparently believe that the chareidi women were committing a Kiddush Hashem by attempting to peacefully fill up the space and block the non chareidi women from davening. This was "great!" you effuse. Wow, how wonderful. Let's prevent Jewish women from praying.What a kiddush Hashem that must be.
But I simply don't understand why blocking these women from praying there was was also not a chillul Hashem. Maybe I am confused but I just don't understand the entire machloket. Women are allowed to don teffilin and talitot, right? So what in the world is the problem with having these Jews express their Judaism this way? Would that all Jews, men and women, were to feel this way and want to don talitot and tefillin! These women should be praised, not condemned, for wanting and trying to be more observant. What exactly is the objection? What am I missing here? What exactly is bothering our hareidi brothers in Torah and ahavat Yisrael this time?

Farblunjet

Dear Farblunjet (love the name!)

You bring up a good point; namely that under the strict letter of the law women are technically allowed to wear tallitot and tefillin, according to many sources.

Nevertheless, the custom of virtually all of our mothers and grandmothers for many generations has been that they do not wear them. A fairly good Halachic summary of why this is so can be found here. Additionally, a fine discussion of a woman's struggle with this issue (that I found very moving) can be found here.

Moreover, without belaboring the background issue, here is the main issue in regard to the Western Wall. It is very clear to me, and I believe most observers, that the so called Women of the Wall are not primarily motivated by their religious zeal to fulfill the additional mitzva of tefillin. Rather, they are trying to score points both for feminism and the non-Orthodox movements by their loud presence. By coming to a place at which the overwhelming majority of worshipers – I would say easily over 90% – pray according to Orthodox tradition, which includes:
  • separate areas for men and women
  • women not wearing Talitot or tefillin
  • women not performing a public reading from a Torah as part of their prayer
they are engaged in a behavior that is designed to harass, incite, and disturb those who pray there regularly, not those who come just during the monthly prayer demonstration.

I am not making the argument, as some do, that the Kotel is an Orthodox synagogue. Although, as I wrote, the overwhelming majority of those who come there regularly are Orthodox, I agree that the Kotel is a national shrine and no one group has exclusive rights to it.

Nevertheless, the reality is that it is used primarily for Orthodox prayer, and has always been used that way for thousands of years. Furthermore, if what the women truly wanted was pluralism, and to live and let live, then they should have supported the Sharansky plan to have an equally comfortable and respected alternative place for them to pray as they wish, at a different location along the wall.

But no, that is not good enough. They insist on being literally in the face of the Orthodox women who pray there, and engage in what to those women is an offensive intrusion in the most sacred place on earth. This proves beyond a doubt that their motivation is not religious fervor, but rather political activism to undermine the prevailing Orthodox custom.

That is why the proposed demonstration by tens of thousands of the REAL Women of the Wall, not those who only show up to demonstrate but rather those who regularly come in their multitudes to pour out their hearts to G-d, was so encouraging. And that is why I was so upset that the evil fanatics spoiled a wonderful effort.

For more on what the demonstration was supposed to be about, see the website of the organizers, at the very aptly named http://womenforthewall.org/

See also a similar perspective to mine by Jonathan Rosenblum

Thanks again for writing!





Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Women at the Wall and Dov Lipman: A short post, Erev Shavuos

I really have no time to write today, as I have to finish putting together material for all the various classes that I hope אי"ה to deliver during Shavuos.   (At least I have the easy job tonight; it is much easier to give a class at 3 AM then to stay awake listening to someone else...)

Nevertheless, I need to briefly comment on two items:

1) The Women of the Wall (WOW)

I first heard about the counter demonstration this past Friday Rosh Chodesh, when calling my mother שתחי' to wish her a good Shabbos.  "Did you hear about the great Kiddush Hashem at the Kotel this morning?," she asked me?  "The Rabbonim, really played this one right.  They asked tens of thousands of women and girls to come to Kotel at 6:30 AM, before the monthly 7:00 AM visit of the WOW, and to completely fill up the women's area with the people who are the ones who always daven there, not just the crocodile-tear "deeply spiritual" Anat Hoffmans, so that when the WOW come they will not be able to get anywhere close. They were instructed to not engage the WOW, not to speak with the press, just to come and daven.  It was really great!"

I was so very glad to hear this news!  Finally, something the Hareidi leadership did that I could really be proud of!

Of course, however, the inevitable happened.  The terrible reshaim who call themselves Chareidim but are in fact nothing more than idiotic evil hooligans, came and disrupted and spit, and threw chairs, and even according to some reports, rocks.  Instead of Kiddush Hashem, the world heard about, once again, a great Chillul Hashem done by "The Chareidim".

No matter that it was a small group who spoiled the Kiddush Hashem that was made by the thousands of women -- that is what the world will hear, as one can see in any number of news outlets that I do not have the time now to provide links for.

My main frustration?   WHERE IS THE VOICE OF THE CHAREIDI LEADERSHIP DENOUNCING THE HOOLIGANS AND SETTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT???   WHY ARE THEY NOT SPEAKING OUT FORCEFULLY AGAINST THOSE TERRIBLE MONSTERS WHO GIVE ALL OF US A BLACK EYE?

Their silence is deafening.   And unfortunately, most people will apply the Halachic principle of
שתיקה כהודאה - Silence (in a case where protest is appropriate) constitutes Agreement.

Thus it is hard not to agree with much that is being said about this incident, the article  Desecrating Judaism in the name of God being an excellent example.  At the Kotel I lost the love of my life is a particularly painful recounting of the results of the hooligans.   It makes me want to scream!!!!!!!!!

Once again, I reference what I have written written earlier, in which I argued the need for a new voice that will represent those of us who can no longer tolerate being associated with the statements, or non-statements, emanating from the Chareidi world.

Which brings me to

2) Dov Lipman

I listened to the interview that he recently had with Zev Brenner.   I see in him a very kindred spirit, and I am so glad that he is doing what he is doing.   While I am not sure if, in his shoes, I would have joined Yesh Atid, there is no question in my mind that he is trying to do what needs to be done and means well, and I am thrilled that he has the opportunity to be in such an influential place at this time.

Most of the dissatisfied Chareidi will not join Yesh Atid.   But we need to not see them as the enemy, but rather as a group that needs to be dealt with respectfully and with the view towards building bridges, not walls.  They are a large and growing movement, and it is not unlikely that Lapid will be Prime Minister before long.  The Chareidi world can either face this reality, or move deeper and deeper into irrelevance and poverty.

Not a pleasant thought.

Chag Sameach!!!!

PS Please see further commentary on this post in a separate post

Thursday, April 25, 2013

Da'as Torah and the Israeli Elections - A letter and a Response

I have been writing on this blog more frequently lately, mainly as a result of a regular column that I have been asked to contribute to the Queens Jewish Link, the local Jewish newspaper.  In response to a my recent essay "A Post-Hareidi Election ", the QJL received the following rather strong letter to the editor.  My response follows.


by Shimon Davis


Having been in Queens for Pesach, I had the opportunity to come across an issue of the Queens Jewish Link (#30). While I was quite impressed with the overall content of the paper, I was also rather disturbed with two of the articles appearing in it, one of which was authored by a Rabbi in one of the Queens shuls.


Although this author’s statements were made public, I have chosen not to mention his name since I noticed that he decided to quote public statements from several gedolei yisroel without mentioning their names. And while I do agree that the actions of certain minority groups amongst the Chareidim in Israel (i.e. the incident in Beit Shemesh), must be condemned in the strongest way, I will also state that this writers rebuke of the gedolei yisroels statements must also be condemned.  I shall explain but I first begin by quoting a segment of the QJL article:


“the greatest amount of blaming came from Chareidi spokesmen against Naftali Bennet and Yair Lapid. The invective and vitriol was intense. Bennet’s Bayit Heyehudi (Jewish home) party is a “party of gentiles” and anyone who votes for them “denies the torah”, according to a major Chareidi Rabbinic figure. Yair Lapid and his Yesh Atid Party are “haters of the Torah.” Submitting to the plans of many of those now learning full time must be resisted at “pain of death” (yehoreg v’al yaavor), according to a leading Chareidi Rav. The Sitra Achra has overtaken Bennet, according to another chareidi leader…….etc.


The author continues:

“I don’t know about you but I find this all very uncomfortable at best, while maddening and disappointing are better words to describe my feelings…..So I ask you, do the parties presenting themselves as chareidim represent our points of view and those of the Rabbonim whom we have always looked to for guidance? Etc…”


And so I respond as follows.


Had the statements quoted above been made by Eli Yishai- head of the Shas party, Menachem Moses- head of the Agudah party, or Moshe Gafne- head of the Degel party, then all and any criticism is welcome. However, the statements were made by several gedolei yisroel, including Rav Ahron Leib Shteinman, Rav Shmuel Aurbach, Rav Dovid Soloveichik, Rav Moshe Shternbuch, and several Admorim from various Chassidic groups. Thus, any criticism, especially by a local community Rabbi, is an absolute disgrace.


However, the statements that were taken out of context in the article, were those made by Rav Ovadia Yosef. Interestingly, it’s usually the Yediot Achranot or Maariv newspaper that manipulate his words, its chaval that it was done by an orthodox paper as well. I will explain.


Rav Ovadia spoke out against Naftali Bennet and his “bayit hayehudi” party on numerous occasions prior to the elections. As quoted in the QJL article, he coined them as the “Bayit shel Goyim” party and chastised anyone supporting them as partners in destroying the Torah. Earlier, Rav Ovadia had chastised some of the “Rabbonim” associated with the party for permitting mixed dancing (!) and mixed swimming (!), and attacked them as destroyers of the Torah as well.


The following is the quotes made by Rav Ovadia in a shiur on the days leading up to the elections after members affiliated with Naftali Bennets “bayit hayehudi” party asked to permit civil marriages in Israel:


There are certain people who many mistaken them as religious jews. They call themselves “bayit hayehudi”. [I hereby tell you that] they are not representing a bayit shel yehudim, they are representing a bayit shel goyim! They want to uproot the Torah! They want to permit civil marriages. They want to permit public desecration of shabbos in eretz yisroel...They are sonei torah umitzvos and are chotei umachtee es harabeem who cause assimilation…how can anyone mistaken them as religious g-d fearing Jews?


Rav Ovadia later joined Rav Shteinman in calling Yesh Atid leader, Yair Lapid, a “Sonei torah”, as well.


Why would these Rabbonim say such terrible things about Bennet and Lapid, two fellow Jews? Let’s just look at the basics:


Here is a tiny quote from what Yair Lapid had to say at a forum of conservative Rabbi’s only months prior to the elections:


I will do anything that is in my power to allow women, whether conservative or reform, to pray at the western wall wearing their prayer shawls. Why? Because Israel can’t be the only country in the western world who doesn’t give religious freedom to Jews…this is just wrong and therefore must disappear!


I will do everything in my power to make sure there will be civil marriages in Israel!

The total dominance of the Israeli rabbanut over marriage and divorce in Israel is an insult to every free man...this is just wrong and therefore has to disappear!

                    

 I will do everything in my power to ensure the equality to all movements in Judaism in Israel: orthodox, conservative or reform; in conversions, in budgets, in the eyes of the law. No one can claim ownership over the jewish g-d! Small petty politics cannot determine something that is eternal as the jewish identity! This is just wrong and therefore it has to disappear!


In reference to the military drafts of yeshiva students, Lapid stated:

Ben Gurion agreed to give exemption to 700 men and today Mir yeshiva alone has 3500 men…..


Lapid is not just out to get a military draft of bnei torah….he is out to destroy torah misinai. By Naftali Bennet partnering with Lapid he too is a partner in destroying the values that we have stood for and gave our lives for since matan torah. 


Its amazing how Bennet, who betrayed many of his own Rabbonim from the “bayit hayehudi” party by joining Lapid, decided to join a man who supports gay marriages, civil marriages, fake conversions, public chilul shabbos, a two state salution to peace, etc. etc., over the chareidi parties whose only real difference is with regards to military service of bnei torah. The only possible reason is because he does not represent a “bayit shel Yehudim”, rather a “bayit shel Goyim”.


What is most shocking to me is how the QJL author described himself as one who identifies himself as a member of Agudas Yisroel and “looks to the Moetzes Gedolei Hatorah as the voice of Torah authority”.


He later added that gedolim such as Rav Moshe Feinstein would have never supported any of the statements made by the gedolim of today. I believe that this claim is an insult to the gadlus of Rav Moshe. Athough Rav Moshe normally refrained from getting involved in matters pertaining to Eretz yisroel, it is well known that he had publicly lashed out against the Chief Rabbi of Israel, Rabbi Shlomo Goren, for the famous incident involving the Langer siblings. That was one case involving one family and Rav Moshe felt he had to rebuke Rabbi Goren for he represented “orthodox Judaism”. Naftali Bennet is no different. He claims to represent “orthodox judaism”, a “bayit shel yehudim”. By joining a “Sonei torah” such as Lapid (note: According to the leaders of the agudah in Israel, Bennet and Lapid agreed to build a coalition block before the elections!), he has indeed proven that he represents a bayit shel goyim.

Here is my published response . . . sorry for the length! 


Well, I guess that it is some measure of success that I now get "fan mail"!  

I am so grateful to Rabbi Schonfeld for his essay in support of my article "A Post Haredi Election", and feel very honored to know that both his father shlita  and he, as well as many others, were in basic agreement with me.  Of course, as Jews, one would expect that others would disagree, and I am grateful to the QJL for publishing the detailed letter of Shimon Davis while giving me this forum to respond to it.  His letter in defense of Gedolim is powerful.  In responding, I am very aware of the dictum of our Sages "Warm yourself by the fire of the sages, but be beware lest you be burned by its embers" (Avot 2:15), and that one must tread very carefully when discussing the pronouncements of great Talmidei Chachomim.  I hope and pray that my words bring more honor to Hashem, His Torah, and its representatives, and not c"v the reverse.

Before I address Mr Davis' concerns, I wish to note that underlying his critique are questions of  the scope and proper application of the concepts of Emunas Chachomim (Faith in our Sages), the mitzvah of Lo Sasur (not to deviate from the rulings of the Sages) and particularly the concept of Da'as Torah (DT), (The Opinion of Torah).  These strongly debated questions are crucially  important for understanding many controversies within Orthodoxy. One might fairly say that - in addition to Zionism, secular culture, the centrality of full time learning and secular education - the differing approaches to these questions are at the core divide between the Chareidi and Modern Orthodox communities.  The Chareidi world tends towards submissive acceptance of the opinions of the Gedolim on virtually all issues of Jewish life, while the Modern Orthodox tend to assert the value of personal autonomy, relegating Emunas Chachomim strictly to issues of P'sak Halacha and personal advice.  As someone who comes from a background now known as Chareidi and whose Rabbeim certainly leaned more that way, I accept the more Chareidi view of DT,  albeit with some caveats, as described below.  Nevertheless, Mr. Davis and I have different approaches to these questions, which explains much of our disagreement.  Unfortunately, these questions cannot be discussed in the depth they deserve in the limited space of this article.[1]

To Mr. Davis' letter: (I apologize if it is Rabbi Davis) At the outset, I believe it is unfortunate that he chose to name the authors of statements that I found troubling, (while for some reason hiding my name).  I refrained from this simply because I do not think that those comments reflected well on their authors.   Mr. Davis obviously disagrees - he apparently is of the opinion that if they said these things then, as DT, they are to be proudly asserted.  No matter that, in the eyes of many, these comments are troubling, at best; if these are reported to be the words of Gedolim then they must be accepted, no questions permitted.   The mere mention of a Gadol's name associated with a statement is enough to quell any doubts, comments, or criticism, or so we are to believe.  But I chose, nevertheless to speak, as the crisis has reached a critical stage, and it is important that questions be raised.

In this I am only following the example of so many Biblical and Rabbinic figures over the millenia, best exemplified by our father Avraham.  In his famous prayer on behalf of Sodom, Avraham dared to question the Almighty Himself when he only feared that an injustice was being about to happen.  Although I am dust beneath the feet of the Gedolim mentioned, and the gap between their Torah knowledge and my ignorance is beyond enormous, nevertheless, surely that gap is infinitesimal as compared to the gap between even the greatest of humans and the Almighty.  And yet, Avraham dared to question.  This ability to ask questions, to seek to understand and not just accept dogma that seems to fly in the face of rationality; to know that our Sages do not speak "ex-Cathedra" but rather are extraordinary human beings whose opinions we must follow in Halachic matters even if they occasionally err, [2] is (or used to be) one of the hallmarks of Judaism, as opposed to other religions.   We must have enormous respect for their  tremendous wisdom and Halachic authority, and therefore must ask humbly - but ask we must, particularly if it not a matter of Halacha but an issue of appropriate policy statements and positions.  If it seems to us that a a perversion of truth, let alone a Chillul Hashem, is going on, we are entitled to raise questions.  I cannot agree with the statement "any criticism, especially by a local community Rabbi, is an absolute disgrace".

            Let's be real.  I did not invent this criticism.  The criticism is in the newspapers, the street, and more importantly, in the hearts and minds of millions of people.  People who overwhelmingly voted for "Anybody but the Hareidim", and who have repeated, ad nauseum, that they are not persuaded by the Chareidi assertion that the merit of Torah study by every available young man and the protection that it provides to the State is worth the enormous privileges and monies that have been spent on them.[3]  People who are outraged and insulted that the party representing their way of life, which is largely one of Torah and Mitzvos and Mesirat Nefesh, is referred to as a "Home of Gentiles".  People who are deeply offended and exasperated that their view, that seeks to not coerce others to follow certain Halachic practices, but rather to democratically allow different levels of Jewish observance to co-exist in an effort to build bridges of Jewish unity and brotherhood, earns them the title "Haters of Torah" and so on.   People are angered and repulsed by these statements.  And for many of us in the Chareidi world, they are greatly disturbing and frankly, embarrassing.  The question is whether we should do or say anything about it.  But, Mr. Davis, please do not pretend that there is no problem, unless you feel that said characterizations are accurate.  In which case, there is not much that we can say to each other.

Mr, Davis identified several Rabbonim, all of whom (with the exception of Rav Shteinman and Rav Ovadya Yosef shlita) are associated with anti-Zionist or Eida Chareidis groups that have a very negative attitude towards any participation in Medinat Yisrael. This is important because recognition of the legitimacy of the State is an issue about which there are clear and very strongly stated disagreements, with some being virulently against participating in the elections, and some declaring it an absolute mitzvah obligation, assuming one votes for the Chareidi parties.  (That is without even discussing non-Chareidi Gedolim, who have altogether different views.)  When confronted with an issue such as this - where Gedolim have sharp disagreement among themselves and thus do not speak with one voice -  it should be obviously improper to invoke any claim of Da'as Torah.  My Rebbe, Rav Nachman Bulman zt"l, clearly told me that when DT applies at all, it is only when the overwhelming majority of Gedolim together publicize their unified opinion on a matter.  The Israeli election, clearly, is not such an area.

Neither  it is DT to keep the status quo of all young men learning full time as long as possible, as this has begun to fray many times in recent years, as the economic realities have exerted more and more pressure against this.  Whether it was Gedolim lining up for and against the Tal Law, or of the acceptability of certain schools teaching secular subjects, or other matters, there is little agreement there as well.   The only thing that there seems to be agreement about is that a solution to the problem should not be forced upon the Chareidim.   But unless there is some willingness to engage in a negotiation, I do not know that this is an realistic expectation.

Since we are not dealing with DT, the case for automatic submission to public statements is far less compelling.  What remains is whether we wish to be associated with such harsh statements.  In my article I did not question the right of those Gedolim to make those statements, much as I wish that they had expressed their opinion in a less corrosive way.  Rather, I was making the case that there ought to be a way for those of us who are discouraged by such statements to not be associated with them.

In regard to statements of Chacham Ovadia Yosef shlita, I hesitate greatly in saying my opinion about this unbelievable Sage and Ohev Yisrael.  I will only say the following, which I believe to be well known and indisputable fact:

1.      There is a long history of Chacham Ovadya using hyperbole that dramatizes in a way common in the Middle East, that comes out sounding reprehensible to Western ears, while speaking to non-Western audiences.
1.      Many of these statements are taken out of context, and skewed by those in the Israeli media who have an anti-religious agenda, and have thus invited much ridicule.
1.      As it should be well known to the Rav and his handlers that this has happened and will happen again, it is difficult to understand why greater care is not taken to prevent it.

That is all I will say on that matter.

I will not say anything directly about other statements of particular Gedolim.  However, I do want to say the following regarding the characterization of Yair Lapid and Naftali Bennet as "Sonei HaTorah".  Mr. Davis cited a variety of positions of Lapid to prove that he indeed "is out to destroy torah misinai", and that "by Bennet partnering with Lapid he too is a partner in destroying the values that we have stood for and gave our lives for since matan torah."  Regrettably, I fail to see how  insistence that most Chareidim do some National service, that there be more fairness in carrying the national burden, less religious coercion, and more quid pro quo in granting financial assistance to Chareidi Yeshivos  qualifies one as a "Sonei Torah."  

Although Lapid's father, Tommy was clearly a "Sonei Torah" (although as a Holocaust survivor we have nothing to say to him about that), I deeply believe that the son is not the father.  Again space does not permit, but I urge anyone who wishes cares about truth to watch the presentation that Yair Lapid gave at the Chareidi Kiryat Ono College[4] . He challenged the Chareidi community to assume their fair share of the national burden, now that they are so successful, numerous, such an economic power,  and so significant in Israeli politics; that they no longer have the luxury of thinking of themselves as marginalized. He then threw down the gauntlet; with the end of marginalization, should come the end of fear.  What is the vision of the Chareidi world, he wanted to know, about who will be responsible for the economic, military, and civic needs of the State in which they are no longer a small minority but a large and growing mainstream force. "I understand that you don't want your children to play with my children on the playground," he said, "and I try hard not to be insulted by that. But can we not find a way to at least be able to live next door to each other?" And, he wanted to know, why he and his children should serve in the army, when they and their children do not. 

I also encourage you to watch the inaugural Knesset speech of Naftali Bennet, and judge for yourself whether this is a "Sonei Torah" and destroyer of values we have held dear since Sinai. In addition, it would be enlightening to watch the inaugural Knesset speech of Ruth Calderon of Yesh Atid, in which she, a non-Orthodox professor of Talmud, gave an inspiring talk to the Knesset about the importance and compelling beauty of Torah.   It is difficult for me to accept that what motivates these people is hatred of Torah, rather than simple fairness.   Res Ipsa Loquitor.  It speaks for itself. 

The question, then, is why it is reported that Rav Shteinman and others have ruled out and compromise with these people and have used such sharp language in doing so.

In truth, I do not know.  However - and this is very hard to write publicly - I and many others that I have talked to over the years lack a great deal of confidence that some statements attributed to Gedolim are in fact the product of said Gadol's full and complete analysis of the issue at hand after being given an opportunity to have both sides fairly present their case to them.  I cannot go into detail here, but it is well known that many of the Gedolim are very old and insulated, and access to them is tightly controlled by askanim who often frame what the Gadol hears, whom they allow entry to, and how what was said is reported.  It is also known that the more extreme elements in the community constantly apply enormous pressure on those askanim for the positions that they advocate, sometimes including intimidation and threats.   Thus, when a particularly difficult to understand statement is made in their name, I begin to wonder what really transpired.   I am sure that Mr. Davis will be horrified by this paragraph, but I must tell you the honest truth as I understand it.

Did said Gedolim ever have the opportunity to sit down and have an open and frank discussion with Naftali Bennet and Yair Lapid?  Are more moderate voices within the Chareidi world given the opportunity, without the presence of the more strident ones, to make their case for balancing the forest of ill will being created against the Chareidi public against the trees of the immediate matter at hand?  Is there sufficient input not only from those solely in the Yeshivos, but also for community Rabbonim and askonim who speak to a broader public, to make their perspective known?  This is not what I hear going on.

There is much more that could be said on that topic, but I will stop there.  והמבין יבין.

Mr. Davis chided me as well for contending that Rav Moshe zt”l would not have made such statements, since after all, he criticized Rav Goren's psak.   Clearly, many Gedolim throughout our history have expressed disapproval when necessary, including disavowing actions of Rabbonim. That is fine, and in keeping with the ethic of questioning described above.  The problem that I was addressing was what happens when legitimate criticisms are couched in very offensive and divisive language.   Clearly, the Gedolim want to protect Torah learning and the Yeshivos as much as possible.  In a political process, or any negotiation, each side will start from a position far from the other side, and hopefully find a diplomatic solution that satisfies as many as possible.  But that must be done in the spirit of good will; not by demonizing the other side to such an extent that any possible compromise is ruled out at the very start.  It seems so clear that the current system is untenable; it is difficult to understand why there seems to be no openness to finding workable solutions, instead of circling of the wagons.

I end with a hope and plea that there be an opportunity for those of us who are considered Chareidim, but suffer deep angst over many pronouncements of the leadership, to either have a real avenue to advocate for our position within the Chareidi world, or to develop a distinct middle ground identity, that can work Lehagdil Torah Ulehadiro, to make the Torah greater and more dignified, in the eyes of G-d and Man.





[1]    There has been much written on this issue.  One excellent resource for seeing different approaches to this question is  Tradition Magazine, Vol. 27#4, Summer 1993 "Rabbinic Authority: A Special Issue", which contains several superb articles summarizing different approaches. 
[2]    Cf. the explanation of Sefer Hachinuch, Mitzvah 496 of Lo Sasur, describing the importance of following even the mistaken pronouncements of the Sanhedrin due to their saintliness and genius, as they are correct far more often than they are not.  How much this applies to our non-sanhedrin era is a fascinating part of the questions referenced above.
[3]  Especially given the consistent refusal of the Chareidi community to recite the prayer for the welfare of the soldiers of the IDF
[4]              The entire lecture can easily be found online, and an English transcript can befound at cross-currents.com.



Monday, April 8, 2013

Looking For The Middle – From The Right And From The Left

In the last edition of the Queens Jewish Link I had the honor of having my essay, “ A Post –Hareidi Election” published, and I am gratified to report that I received a lot of positive feedback from our readers. As I wrote then, the opinions presented were not new or novel, but merely expressed views that are shared by a great many, who, for whatever reason, are reluctant to state them publicly.
Indeed, there is a great middle ground of serious people who are now referred to as “Chareidi”, who feel repelled by many of the statements and actions of Chareidim spokesmen and activists, and wish they were not associated with these statements and actions in the court of public opinion. Put another way, while others may express themselves as they wish, and take responsibility for their own bringing honor to Hashem and His Torah (or Heaven forfend the reverse), we should not be implicitly or explicitly blamed or implicated for those actions by our association.

In particular, I was very gratified to a receive a positive response to the article from one of our most distinguished Queens Rabbonim, Rabbi Fabian Schonfeld שליט"א. He noted among other things that one great Rav who we both hold in great admiration, namely Rav Samson Raphael Hirsch זצ"ל, went to great lengths to avoid labels such as Chareidi-Judaism, or Modern-Orthodox, preferring to refer only to “Torah True” Judaism.1 This of course, as it should be. One ought to feel comfortable, as I did today, davening in the Satmar Beis Hamidrash in Williamsburg in the morning, proceeding from there to Yeshiva University to attend a seminar with Rabbonim of various hashkafot, and then finishing the day at our Young Israel at a Yom Hashoah commemoration with Jews of an even greater variety of observance and outlook. We ought to be able to look at ourselves as comprising only one large group, that of Torah true Jews.

Nevertheless, the reality is that there are many serious Hashkafic differences between Jews, and although we are all bound by the same Halacha, there are significant differences in many matters that affect our approach to life. In broad strokes, there are Ashkenazim and Sephardim and Eidot HaMizrach; Chassidim as opposed to Misnagdim; those looking to embrace all that is good in the secular world and those who are looking to stay away from anything in the secular world that isn't absolutely necessary; those who see Zionism and the State of Israel as a great blessing and those who see it as a cause of much turning away from Torah; and everything in between. This is nothing new.

Moreover, many of the great commentaries point to the division of Israel into twelve tribes as being not only of genealogical interest, but as indicative of different paths to Avodas Hashem, each of them equally co-valid and complementary, wherein different people could find their own way in the service of Hashem that speaks to the needs of their own Neshamos. We know something of the differing paths of Yissachar and Zevulun, or Yosef and Yehuda, and certainly that of Levi, somewhat less of the other tribes, but the message is clear: it is only by recognizing and validating that there are different people with different sensitivities, talents, thought patterns, resources, abilities, and spiritual needs that we come together as a great diversified nation united by Halacha and loyalty to Hashem. In our time, it is up to individuals to fulfill the dictum of Pirkei Avos עשה לך רב – Establish a Rabbinic Guide for Yourself – in order to find the spiritual path that matches their neshama, within the Halachic world.

Given that this is the case, and that for both the purposes of self identification and for that of our children's education, we feel the need to belong to a particular group within “Torah-True Judaism”, it is necessary that the groups be drawn neither too narrowly nor too broadly. On the one hand the group needs to be broad enough to contain many shades of variety and diversity, or else the dangers of insularity, group-think and defensiveness will create people who are devoid of the ability and need to appreciate and understand others, and will stifle originality, creativity and growth among its members. On the other hand the group needs not to be drawn so broadly so that it includes extremes so far beyond the pale of the beliefs and views of the more moderate members that they are appalled to be associated with those positions. It is to that phenomenon that my last article spoke.

I wish to add that this phenomenon is not limited to the Chareidi,or so-called “Ultra-Orthodox”, world. (I used to object to the pejorative nature of the term “Ultra-Orthodox”, given that the dictionary defines the word “ultra” as going beyond due limit”, and offers helpful synonyms such as “extremist, fanatic, rabid, radical” etc. More recently I have begun to question my objection . . . ) A similar issue is very present in the Modern-Orthodox world as well. As a recently term-limited-out member of the Executive committee of the RCA (Rabbinical Council of America),2 I had a front row seat to many of the struggles that go on within Modern Orthodoxy. On the one hand, there are those who are seeking to push innovations such as: female Rabbis, prayer groups for women including Kaddish and Krias HaTorah, or of “partnership minyanim”; acceptance of homosexual couples as full members of the community including having a mazal tov kiddush when they adopt a child; pushing lower standards for conversions; no longer saying the blessing of “Shelo Asani Isha” as offensive to women (and perhaps even omitting “Shelo Asani Goy” as politically incorrect); and, more broadly, introducing secular, academic, and non-traditional sources when considering Halachic p'sak (decision making). On the other hand, there are those who strongly resist and resent those efforts (and many somewhere in between). It is a struggle, as well, between those who look to Gedolim such as Rav Aharon Lichtenstein, Rav Hershel Schachter, Rav Mordechai Willig, and Rav Gedaliah Dov Schwartz (all שליט"א ) as the standard bearers of the Mesorah in our time; and those on the far left, particularly those associated with Rabbi Avi Weiss and Yeshiva Chovevei Torah who have a very different vision of of what the future ought to be considered within the pale of Modern Orthodoxy.

I have friends and colleagues who have the same angst at being known as Modern Orthodox as I do at being known as Chareidi, if Modern Orthodoxy includes the extreme innovations of those on the left. They, too, suffer uncalled-for criticism, that makes them cringe. I remember attending an Agudah convention some years back, when one of the Roshei Yeshiva attacked “Centrist Judaism”, the term then in vogue for Modern Orthodoxy. Citing some of the excesses of some of the more left wing Rabbis he thundered “If that is centrist, than what is to the left of them, Conservative Judaism??” How shameful it must have felt for serious Talmidei Chachamim and Yirei Shamayim within the Modern Orthodox world to be pronounced one step removed from Conservative Judaism! That is the danger when a publicly identified group is too large – the inevitable extremists taint the mainstream and traditional members with their excesses.

I do not know what the answer is to all this is, other than for a re-emergence of a true Centrist Judaism group, one that is broad based and comprised of “Torah-True Jews”, that will not tolerate either the extremists of the right or the left in speaking for them or setting the agenda for the Klal. One whose leaders will be serious Talmidei Chachamim, who represent of a true diversity of Hashkafot and styles, while possessing mutual respect and dignity for each other and in speaking to those both within the community and without in ways of pleasantness and inspiration. With apologies: “perhaps I am a dreamer, but I'm not the only one.”

1The famous dispute between Rav Hirsch & the Wurzburger Rav is very germane to this, but space does not permit comment
2 I note that the RCA is a broad based organization of predominantly Modern Orthodox Rabbis of a variety of Hashkafot, and some who have a more Chareidi outlook. The RCA does not presently offer membership to candidates with semicha from YCT .

Sunday, March 17, 2013

A Post Hareidi Election: Can We Achieve Freedom?


Well, it has finally happened.

It looks like the dust has settled, and the new government in Israel is about to form. Contrary to all the trumpeting self-congratulatory talk following the last election – when the Hareidi parties boasted that they had gained more power than ever with 18 seats between UTJ & Shas, based on which they were in a great position to influence the Israeli politic to their desires – they have been left out of the coalition to lick their wounds and fear what is in store the Hareidi sector. And it was so pathetically predictable.
We have been, and will be treated to more and more talk about how everyone else is to blame for this turn of events: Shas head Aryeh Deri placed the blame on Binyamin Netanyahu, Netanyahu placed the blame on Naftali Bennet, and so on and so forth.
But the greatest amount of blaming came from Hareidi spokesmen against Naftali Bennet and Yair Lapid. The invective and vitriol was intense. Bennett’s Bayit Hayehudi (Jewish Home) party is “a party of Gentiles” , and anyone who votes for them “denies the Torah”, according to a major Hareidi Rabbinic figure. Yair Lapid and his party Yesh Atid are “haters of Torah”.  Submitting to the plans for drafting many of those now learning full time must be resisted “at pain of death” (Yehoreg v'al Ya'avor), according to a leading Hareidi Rav. The “Sitra Achra” (Mystical Dark Side) has overtaken Bennet according to another Hareidi leader. Calls for a boycott of anything produced in the yishuvim of Yehuda and Shomron are being made to exact revenge against Bayit Hayehudi.  In short, it is a conspiracy against the Torah, whereby the various parties are trying to destroy the Hareidim, and it is nothing less than an existential crisis for the future of Hareidi Jewry.    There is endless self-righteous self-pity being expressed, as they play the part of the victim of anti-semitic hatred of Torah and religious Jews.

I don't know about you, but I find this all very uncomfortable at best; while maddening and disappointing are better words to describe my feelings.  After all, many people might classify me as Hareidi.  I wear a black hat, identified as a member of Agudas Yisroel, went to “Black Hat” yeshivos, looked to the Moetzes Gedolei HaTorah as the voice of Torah Authority, do not say Hallel with a bracha on Yom HaAtzmaut, have several brothers in law and a son who learn or learned in Kollel, and so on and so forth.   Most of my family in Israel now consider themselves Hareidim.

At the same time, I am proud of the State of Israel, and consider it among the greatest blessings that Hashem has given our people in the last 100 years.  I stand in awe of the accomplishments this little country has achieved against incredible odds, feel deeply appreciative to the soldiers of the IDF for their heroic protection of my people, and would consider it an honor to be a citizen of the State of Israel.  Furthermore, it seems self-evident that the predicament which most young Hareidim in Israel face, whereby they must learn after marriage for many years whether or not they show particular promise as future scholars or Rabbonim, living in poverty while being supported by a combination of overburdened wives, overextended in-laws and government welfare, is insane, unsustainable, and in fact cruel to those forced into the system.  I am proud of those who are serious about Torah learning and Mitzva observance while working in a profession or business to support their families.  I feel totally distanced from most of the pronouncements of Hareidi spokesmen, both Rabbinic and political. 

Furthermore, I daresay that there are, at least, tens of thousands of people who feel similar to me hashkafically, both in Israel and the Diaspora, certainly here in Queens, whether or not we say it out loud.   So I ask you: are we Hareidim?  Do the parties presenting themselves as Hareidi represent our points of view and those of the Rabbonim that we have always looked to for guidance?  

But there is more that troubles us.   Not only do we find the statements and positions of the Hareidi parties distasteful, but we are aware that these positions have created enormous animosity against Hareidim, where recent polls indicate “ that 76% percent of the Israeli public support a coalition made up of the Likud, Yesh Atid and Bayit Yehudi” without Hareidim, and only “four percent of Israelis want a new government that would include the Likud together with the Hareidi parties”.  This points to an abysmal failure on the part of the Hareidi public to persuade fellow Israelis of the beauty and integrity of their way of life – the exact opposite is true.  It is a Hillul Hashem of epic proportions.

And it is not anyone's fault but their own.  I do not have the space here to go into this at length, but it is clear to me that this happened NOT because the secular parties hate religion, or are trying to destroy Torah and the Yeshivos, but rather due to the fact that they are sick and tired of being what Israelis call “friers”.   (A frier in Israel is what in America would be called a “sucker”, a naive dupe who is taken advantage of by others.)  They feel that they are being taken advantage of by the Hareidim – that they have done so much to provide for the Hareidim financially, militarily, building the infrastructure that they use, etc. and receive no gratitude in return, but instead constant ridicule – they are sick and tired and want to stop being frier-im.   They simply want the Hareidi public to contribute their fair share of the national burden and to stop looking out only for themselves and their interests, while pretending to believe that it is mandated by Halacha and necessary for the State for every single able bodied young man to be learning full time for many years.

But here is the rub – all of this angst that I bear is so unnecessary!  Why should I, and others, feel that we need to carry the label Hareidi?  Is that the only label that a non-Mizrachi oriented Orthodox Jew can bear?  Is my only choice to self identify as a Hareidi or Mizrachi/Modern Orthodox? (Not that there is anything wrong with Modern Orthodox, but that is not where I and many others feel at home).   Did there not used to be a large middle ground that proudly held the positions I described above, and clearly was not part of the anti-Zionist, anti-any-accommodation-with-the-secular-world of Satmar, Neturei Karta, Eida Chareidis?   Where is our voice?   Where is the voice of those who could come to a reasonable middle position, whereby a small percentage of promising scholars would learn full time, and others would take responsibility for their families relatively soon after marriage, as has ALWAYS been the Mesorah of Klal Yisrael until recent times?

Why do I, and so many others, have to continue to tolerate being associated with these views that make us so uncomfortable and exasperated?

The truth is that much of the problem has come about because of the most unfortunate adoption of the title “Hareidi” by groups that were always much more moderate in their views than those that originally were known by that name, i.e. the Satmar/Eidah Chareidis/extreme anti-Zionists.  The world that I grew up in, that of Torah Vodaas, Lakewood, Mir, Breuers, was not called Hareidi, and held views that were clearly different.   I cannot imagine the Gedolim that I grew up revering, such as Rav Moshe Feinstein, Rav Yaakov Kamenetsky, Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach and others possibly supporting the positions and statements cited above.   They were not Zionist, but not anti-Zionist; supported Kollel learning but also strongly felt that husbands should support their families;  did not say Hallel on Yom Ha'Atzmaut but were appreciative and supportive of Jews of all types in the State of Israel; believed in the importance of proper tznius standards, but were very careful to always honor and appreciate women and make sure they were treated with respect, dignity and caring . . . all this and more described a group that somehow has been swallowed into the large group known as “Hareidi” with all the negative baggage that goes along with it, much , in my opinion, to its detriment.

I have written about this in the past, and would ask anyone interested to please see that essay. But it is a lonely position.  As a sense of how maddening it is, I could not get any of the various publications in the Hareidi world to publish that essay.  Too controversial.   Too out of touch with the way things are.  But I know, deep down, that many agree with me, and wish that there was another way – a way in which the great majority of right leaning Orthodox Jews would feel that they are represented by reasonable and non-extreme views and personalities that bring honor and dignity to Torah and Torah Jews and their way of life.

We stand now before the great Yomtov of Pesach, in which we celebrate our freedom and independence from tyranny, and the liberty to serve Hashem without restraint.   May we merit to be free of those who force us into extremism, so that we might serve Hashem with delight and joy, and be the positive example that we ought to be to our all our brothers and sisters here and in Medinat Yisrael.  May leaders arise that have the courage to stand apart and proudly encourage thousands of serious Jews to live by the credo “Her Ways are ways of Pleasantness, and all of her Pathways are Those of Peace.”   May we be able to stand with our heads held high, as we focus on Kiddush Hashem, and cringe no longer at being associated with the Hillul Hashem that is all too often being made by the group we are purported to belong to.  May the coming changes in Israeli life proceed in a way that will help the many moderate people now trapped in the “Hareidi world” find their voice and help all to build a better and more respectful Israeli society for all of our fellow Jewish Brethren.